I started volunteering at a senior living home in
December. I told the volunteer
coordinator I was up to help wherever she needed it, juice cart duties,
organizing the library, etc. She had
something else in mind though. She
emailed me with my post after I passed my TB test, I was going to hang out on
Saturday mornings once in a while and paint fingernails.
This was slightly unsettling for a few reasons. One, I have never painted someone else’s
nails before. Two, physical nearness to
strangers has never really been my thing.
Three, I am not super great at small talk. I was nervous as my first Saturday
approached.
When I arrived the first Saturday I only had one
customer. She was delightful and didn’t
seem to be too bothered with me coloring outside of the lines a little
bit. Conversation came easy and I was
eager to come back the next time. When
that day came, I had a half a dozen women waiting for me when I arrived. It was cute because some of them thought I
was practicing for beauty school.
My posse has grown to about eight regulars who I am excited
to see. I am much more confident in my
painting skills and am happy to suggest colors that will match outfits they
have planned out for the week. They make
conversation with each other while they’re waiting for paint or drying. It’s nice for me because I can do nails and
listen to the conversations. The
experience has been an absolute pleasure from the get go and I am happy I let
myself be open to it so I could meet these women.
Wow. I don't think I could do that either for the same reasons. But you did. Good for you.
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